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We had a terrible day. It was one of terrible sadness and a feeling of helplessness. The situation happened with a couple with a young baby and a baby on the way. The mom didnt think she could handle another baby. The father said he was willing to do whatever was needed to support the family. He`d told her exactly this. Unfortunately the mother to be was already inside the Planned Parenthood facility. 

Two of us were talking to the father. While he comforted his baby.He was taking care of his baby and going back and forth into Planned Parenthood to try to get his partner to come out. He went in three times. Our security guard coached him on what to say. He came out each time without her. He continued to talk to her on the phone and this gave me an opportunity to talk to her.  Nothing worked. Twice she told me she'd meet me on the sidewalk. She did not. 

At a certain point she told us that she didn't think the staff would let her leave. I responded to this by saying  “just like they say there, you body your choice, you can leave anytime. Finally she announced to us that her water broke. She was 17 or 18 weeks pregnant when she chose to abort her baby. 

The father was visibly shaken by this information. He started crying. Their baby started to get fussy. The father started asking questions and wondering if maybe his baby was able to feel what was going on. I couldn't answer. I handed him the information for the post abortive hotline and Rachel's Vineyard. We were all consumed by our own sadness separately and together. . I think we all felt the life of this baby being sucked away. Some days on the sidewalk are horrible. This was one of them. 


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